The Guardians Gift Blog
Talking about all the stuff that matters when preparing for your legacy.

Perception Versus Perspective
2 Ways to think about how you make decisions. Which Rose-Colored Glasses Are You Looking Through? Is it your perception or your perspective? Perception is a slippery slope of an internal view colored by filters of our life experiences. Perception is the way we internally view things. Perception is a complex interplay of our internal

The Transformative Power of Dreams: Navigating Grief and Finding Inner Strength
When people come to me for grief counseling, I frequently ask if they have had a dream of their loved one. Dreams are the back door of our soul used by our unconscious or the divine consciousness to gift us something important like a warning, guidance, love, or a sense of peace. I believe that

“The Intelligence Trap: How Being Smart Can Lead to Costly Mistakes”
I was chatting with my husband about my frustration with explaining what The Guardian’s Gift Time Capsule is to people hearing about it for the first time. When I tell people I’m a legacy coach and assist individuals and families with legacy estate plans I’m often told, “Oh, I already have a will.” Sometimes people

The Hidden Risks of Ignoring Your Digital Estate (And How to Avoid Them)
As our lives become increasingly digitized, our online presence grows in importance. From social media accounts to online bank accounts, we all have a digital estate that needs to be protected. Ignoring your digital estate can have serious consequences, both for you and your loved ones. In this blog post, we’ll explore the hidden risks

Are You an Eldest Daughter and a Caregiver
Warning Signs and Helpful Tips The “eldest daughter syndrome” is a term that refers to a phenomenon wherein the oldest daughter of a family exhibits certain behavioral traits that are commonly associated with being bossy, perfectionistic, overachieving, people-pleasing, extremely responsible, and super family-focused. This phenomenon has been noted by family members and friends of the

Giving Up The Car Keys
Getting an elderly loved one to stop driving is a difficult and emotional process, but sometimes it’s a necessary one to ensure their safety and the safety of others on the road. My personal experience with my 89-year-old mother is proving to be a challenging journey that requires patience, understanding, and creativity. In this blog
